HOW TO EASILY MOVE ON AFTER BREAK-UP?
70TIPS FOR EASY MOVE ON AFTER BREAK-UP
Break-ups for us especially on women seem to be nightmares. A lot of crying, sleepless nights and desperations are just some of the common effects of relationship break-ups. The hardest questions being asked is how to move on with life without him? Is there happiness after break-up? My answer is YES!!!
You must first understand that relationship break-ups are just a normal thing. That it can happen to anybody. Because not all relationship are made perfect and smooth. Problems and conflicts usually arise and if couples can't bear to handle these obstacles, a break-up will occur.
Women are born much sensitive than men. Mostly, in a relationship, its women who is deeply affected and have difficulty of moving on with life. I had relationship before and experience broken heart due to relationship break-up. But I can say that I was able to overcome that situation and went back to my normal life. How did I do that? Here's how:
1. I always pray to God whenever I feel so lonely. Whatever heartaches and worries that are boggling me were forwarded to Him. He is my source of strength.
2. I listen to good inspirational music and avoid listening to love songs. Gospel songs are good in healing sad feelings. It can also help me have a nice sleep.
3. I engage myself to lots of works. Being busy will give me no time to think about heartaches. Gardening or home crafts are great ideas to start with.
4. I go group dating with friends. Being with supportive friends will ease your ill feelings.
5. Don't pretend you don't know him or don't avoid talking about him for it will only prolong that recovery period. Its better that you will be used to discuss topic about him until everything becomes just a normal topic.
6. Keep yourself blooming. Develop more your beauty and health care. Don't let your heartaches ruin your personality.
7. Open your heart for a new relationship. Don't be afraid to love once more. Not all men are the same. Just be extra careful next time in choosing the right guy.
It is true that time will heal the wounds but it is also a fact that the person involved must do actions to make time do it.
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I really needed those. You've got good advices. I think you were right, it does take time. Thanks for publishing this. It really meant a lot.
thanks for posting this,,,it really helps...
sigh!!!
thanks for posting this steps, i hope it works..
actually your tips are good, but one mistake outside a girl is weak but inside she is strong unlike men strong outside but weak inside, try to understand this and i think it would help you alot
its been two weeks, but everytime i remember our break up, i still feel the pain and cry. is this normal?
Hi ma'am , you know , all your tips are really good, thats the things im doing now to ease the pain from break up. Your also right that girls are the one who really affected in this kind of situation. Thanks for sharing your thouhts. I hope you can write more tips and advise too about moving on. thanks !
i miss my girlfriend so much...its been 3 months since we broke up. the thing i always do is to pray it gives me stregth...anyway thank for posting it it reminds me to pray again... :3
i learned a lot of things from break up. i guess it will make me a better person! another day had passed without him. :'c
just broke up w/ my 4 years boyfriend, 2 mos. ago.. and it's really hard to move on :'(
@Jen, I also broke up with my boyfriend just last week. We can talk online and I'll help you move on.. I think I'm moving on now pretty easily.
For boys No girl in life no prob of break up....N for girls dont move wid the flattering word of boys.....just njoy ur life single....
My girlfriend broke up with me it’s of my attitude that’s she always told me. our friends asked who are the one breaking up but my girlfriend told them that i did the break up. and now she's with another guy and that guy was one of our issued in our relationship in the past because they have mutual feelings when she'd assigned in other place and that guy was her officemate. I did everything to win her back, I’m paranoid now, regreting so much and i always think her every minute. i always told to myself to move on but i cant, i always check her in facebook so I can get some update of her but every time i did i always hurt because i saw her with that guy. What shoud I do? Should I move on? or talk to her, we haven’t talk since we broke up.
its so awesome.. .maam your right that God is our strenght
Well said, tx for the tips i really need this..
good job,, hmm, my gf of 3 years and 4mos broke up with me and its been five days since, its so hard to move on. im always crying my self to sleep
thanks for your help
very inspirational. I hope this will really help.. My boyfriend just broke up with me yesterday.it's hard to recover so easily. Hope everything is going to be fine.
we broke up because he he's done he dont want me no more. i asked him if he had someone and he said no. i let him go after a month i found out he cheated on me while we were still together and that was the reason he broke up with me. he didnt have the balls to tell it to my face and he didnt even say sorry for foolinh me. i want to confront him about that but i ask my self 'what for?' i only want closure
Oh loire... I got into same situation also, I found out that he cheated on me just last night. It so damn raged me when I found out because all through out our relationship we've been arguing about his thoughts that I am cheating, but then when I found out that he's the one cheating it totally gives me a hell of anger. But still I know deep inside that I still love him, it's just so hard to move on, I did everything for him, and he just left me out of the blue, he can't even say sorry for everything that he did to me, for all the cusses and accusations he spitted on my face. I so damn hated him, he'd given me anxiety for all the emotional strain.
i knw dat!!!:p bt wtf shuld v wen v r alne outta ppls company!!!??? ass
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years yesterday due to finding out that he had a newborn baby right behind my back. All this while ive asked him if he was involved with someone and he said no and tried to cover it up with logical explanations. The only way that I found out was when I got into his car and found baby formula and baby seat in the back of his vehicle. When I confronted him he was like, "I was going to tell you." I feel used and hurt from all that he's put me through and never knew that I could expect this....Im too young for this. Anyways, thank you for posting the advice, because my strength is from God as well and I must continue to seek him so that all will go well for me. Ladies keep your head up and know your self worth.....that's what i'll do.
Thank you for helping me to get my lovely partner back in my life. I am so blessed that you used a non forceful way of uniting and reuniting us. Our past, presence and future seems to have all merged into one. You told me that everyone has a compatible soul mate wether in their life or waiting to come into their lives. I am glad its my partner of old. I did not want to really go and be with someone else.. You have removed the extra baggage that has been affecting us and holding us back. Peace to you.Dr. hook i am so happy that my ex is back to me again...if you need his help you can reach him. dr.hookwace@yahoo.com
@sajem
try to change your habit. sneaking at your girlfriends facebook is a mess. you cant move on by that process. try to be with friends always. and of course train yourself not to think of her..
Oh..tnx for the advise..i will try it..it was easy to say the word move on,,but its so hard to do it..,my relationship with my GF, about 3 years..so its hard for me to forget.shes my everything,,i miss her so much..when i see her i feel the pain..how can i forget?if she is my true love..im hurt so much.!
thanks for posting those tips...you got me inspired by your words.....
my bf of 3 years broke me upjust last week and im still on denial stage.. we never argue before break up.he just wanted the space..i really have a hard tym moving on..
Just praying to God and it helps a lot.
Psalm 147:3
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Godbless
thanks...it helps..
oMG. its really hard :(
I agree! I've been listening to gospel a lot lately and it really does help with bringing peace and putting things into perspective. Remember that everything happens for a reason and that God is in control. Cast your cares on him for He cares for you.
It's interesting because I've actually starting thanking God for the break up even though I still love my ex and miss him but it helps to put things in perspective. We were together for a year and he broke up with me a week ago and started seeing this girl 2 days after the break up.
It is hard to get over the hurt and pain on our own and that's why Jesus can be the source of our strength and fill us with peace and hope!
Take it a day at a time and we will get through this!
anonymous 2 years ago
good job..